Sub in the City
Sarah Butcher | BDSM Coach & Kink Educator
Empowering you to own your kink
BDSM Coach & Kink Educator, empowering you to consciously explore what BDSM means to you.
As a BDSM Coach, Kink Educator and proudly collared submissive, with over a decade of personal experience on the BDSM Scene, I’m on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters like yourself to consciously explore your desires with confidence.
Through my workshops, talks and 1-1 coaching sessions, I provide a safe space for you to dive deep into your desires to gain clarity and confidence in communicating these with your partner(s).
About Sarah

Sarah Butcher is a sex-positive coach and sex educator, with over 10 years’ personal experience in BDSM and kink. Sarah shares her wealth of knowledge through her educational workshops, seminars and talks, both on and offline on variety of topics including sexual desire, consent, communication, aftercare & more.
Whether you’re looking to explore power play, role play s or you just want to find out what fantasies you enjoy, Sub in the City is a hub of knowledge and sex education that is friendly, honest, and approachable.
Sarah’s goal is to empower you to explore your sexuality and relationships through 1-1 couples and individual coaching sessions, providing a safe and welcoming space for you to gain a deeper understanding of different practices so that you can introduce them into your relationship with confidence.

Events & Workshops
I host a number of educational workshops and events on both online and in-person. If you would like to book me for your event, or to book a private workshop, please email me at sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com.
My Blog
The best and worst of Kinky TV
Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of …
What is CBT?
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What’s your kinky love language?
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What do people say?
- Monica G, Texas
- Daisy S, Boston
already started applying some of the tricks together at home!"