Sub in the City




Sub in the City

Sarah Salazar | Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator

Supporting you to discover your desires, integrate your shadows, and live in your truth through the exploration of kink

Sarah is a Certified Sex and Relationship Therapist, working with individuals and couples, using an integrative approach to empower you to consciously explore what BDSM & kink means to you.

Meet Sarah, Dip, MBACP

Hi, I’m Sarah! I’m an Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach and Educator.

I work with individuals and couples to support them on their journey of kinky discovery and sexual exploration. 

As a proudly collared submissive with over 14 years of personal experience in the BDSM lifestyle, and as a Certified Sex and Relationship Therapist and  Humanistic Integrative Counsellor, I’m on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters like yourself to consciously explore your desires with confidence. 

Working with kink in therapy can be extremely powerful, as it allows us to dive deep into our shadows, making it easier to connect with the parts of us that may need the most love and attention. 

As well as working directly with your current BDSM lifestyle to improve practical skills, communication and education, I can support you with anything else that comes up through working with kink and sexuality including limiting beliefs, attachment issues, inner child healing, trauma, anxiety, heartbreak, grief, infidelity and much more. 

Through therapy, coaching, workshops and events, I provide a safe space for you to dive deep into your desires, integrate your shadows, and live a kinky life that feels authentic to you! 

Book a Session

Private Therapy & Coaching | Individuals | Couples 

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Events & Workshops

I host a number of educational workshops and events, both online and in-person. If you would like to book me for your event, or to book a private workshop, please email me at sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com.

What do people say?

"The six weeks to own your kink course was everything I expected and more! From the informative lessons and kinky homework, to my interactions with Sarah and my classmates, I finished the course with a more open mind and a better understanding of BDSM. The confidence I gained is immeasurable"

- Monica G, Texas
"Sarah is the best BDSM coach around! I feel so confident and able to proceed being a Domme thanks to her. 10/10 reach out to her if you're looking for guidance"

- Daisy S, Boston
"BDSM 101 was a fun and interesting experience, and we’ve

already started applying some of the tricks together at home!"

- BDSM 101 attendees