When I first discovered BDSM over 12 years ago, I didn’t know where to begin. The internet was a dark and scary place and I felt like I was out of my depth. My journey was filled with trial and error, and on reflection, put myself in a lot of situations without the correct knowledge or tools to communicate my needs and desires well.

What did this mean for me? Well, I had a lot of mediocre experiences to say the least! Experiences where my needs, wants, desires and safety were not my priority, leaving me open and vulnerable to bad experiences.

I learnt a lot over the years of how to attract the right kinky partner, how to communicate my needs, and how to have the best kinky experiences where I felt satisfied and safe in my exploration with others. And this is the space I want to create for everyone who is curious to explore their desires.

Through making my own mistakes, I learnt a lot about the common obstacles people face when diving into this taboo world, and now I’m on a mission to empower you to feel confident, safe and sexy in your kink exploration.

My workshops and coaching are a safe space for you to learn about your desires and understand how to explore them confidently. My social and play events allow you to embrace your kinky side and meet other like-minded people in the community in a safe and empowering space. And my therapy practice supports my work in a trauma-informed way, to ensure ongoing support and safety, inside and outside of the bedroom.