Dungeon Party: My Bloody Valentine Friday 20th February| 8pm–1am | Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth. We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, […]
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Saturday 31st January – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for their monthly Dungeon Party – this time celebrating 6 years of Sub in the City! We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our monthly Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in
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Saturday 13th December – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for an exclusive, intimate Christmas Dungeon Social We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Christmas Dungeon Social where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light
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Sunday 9th November from 4pm – Late – Bournemouth Calling all kinky horror fans! We’ve got just the thing for you this spooky season. Sub in the City is teaming up with Ouija Escape Experiences to bring you the ultimate Halloween fright/kink-fest in Bournemouth. On Sunday 9th November, we’re inviting you to join us for
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Thursday 22nd May – ONLINE WAX PLAY MASTERCLASS Join Sub in the City for an online masterclass in wax play, as Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator, Sarah, and Sub in the City’s House Dom, Master Carlos, guide you through an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration. Whether you wish to join us with
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This week we look at ‘sissification’, this fairly common kink is very often held by men who want to experience domination blended with a fantasy to dress or act like a woman. “Sissification” is a term typically used within the context of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) and fetish communities. It refers
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SITC’s round-up of the best tools for spanking If you’ve wanted to progress your play past restraints and blindfolds, spanking is often the next step and can heighten the kinkiness of a play session whilst providing some role-playing opportunities. Spanking is more technically known as ‘impact play’ and can incorporate a whole lot more than
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Where to travel for the best BDSM events, clubs and lifestyle If you’re looking for a destination that’s daring, adventurous, and pushes the boundaries of sexual expression, then you might be interested in exploring the kinkiest cities in the world. The cities below are known for their vibrant and diverse alternative scenes, where people can
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How, when, and why to create a Dom/sub contract for your power play dynamic Are you exploring Dominant and submissive role play but feel like something’s missing? Perhaps you’re ready to take things to the next level or want to express your commitment to this new lifestyle in a significant way? Then perhaps it’s time
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Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice a femdom dynamic, play mostly revolves around harnessing feminine energy to assert dominance, or exploring the masculinity associated with domination to affirm a Dominant role. There’s lots to explore within
