Saturday 15th & Sunday 16th August 2026 – Bournemouth, BH1 Ever feel like you don’t have the time to properly get into your Dom/sub dynamic? Perhaps you keep talking about starting but never get around to it? Does it currently feel like it will always be a fantasy but never a reality? How about an […]
Sunday 10th May 3-5pm 2026 – Bournemouth, BH1 Aftercare: A practice of Grounding After Intense Play High-intensity scenes can take us into altered space – physically, emotionally and psychologically. Whether you’re exploring D/s dynamics, impact, rope, primal play or other forms of kink, what happens after the scene matters just as much as what happens
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Friday 10th April 2026 – Bournemouth, BH1 Discipline: The Power Behind the Dynamic Discipline is the often-overlooked “D” in BDSM—yet it’s one of the most powerful tools for building trust, structure, and deeper connection within a power exchange dynamic. If you’re curious about how discipline can strengthen your dynamic, refine your leadership, or guide your
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Saturday 18th April @ 7.30pm – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for their monthly Dungeon Party. This time we’re celebrating the month of Aries as it’s both Sarah and Master Carlos’s Birthdays! 5 FREE TICKETS: Are you an Aries? Email me sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com with your ID to prove DOB
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Dungeon Party: My Bloody Valentine Friday 20th February| 8pm–1am | Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth. We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters,
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Saturday 28th March @ 7.30pm – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for their monthly Dungeon Party. We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our monthly Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light
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Saturday 13th December – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for an exclusive, intimate Christmas Dungeon Social We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Christmas Dungeon Social where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light
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Sunday 9th November from 4pm – Late – Bournemouth Calling all kinky horror fans! We’ve got just the thing for you this spooky season. Sub in the City is teaming up with Ouija Escape Experiences to bring you the ultimate Halloween fright/kink-fest in Bournemouth. On Sunday 9th November, we’re inviting you to join us for
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Thursday 22nd May – ONLINE WAX PLAY MASTERCLASS Join Sub in the City for an online masterclass in wax play, as Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator, Sarah, and Sub in the City’s House Dom, Master Carlos, guide you through an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration. Whether you wish to join us with
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This week we look at ‘sissification’, this fairly common kink is very often held by men who want to experience domination blended with a fantasy to dress or act like a woman. “Sissification” is a term typically used within the context of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) and fetish communities. It refers
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