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Feel the Impact: Safe Spanking 101
20th February 2025 – ONLINE
Curious about impact?
Whether you’re exploring the world of BDSM or wanting to learn new ways to spicy up your sexy time, this workshop will help explore the world of pain and pleasure to help you put your kinky desires into practice.
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Submissive Circle: Self Love & Gratitude Ritual
23rd February 2025 – ONLINE
Join Sub in the City for an intimate women’s submissive circle to dive deep into your desires with other like-minded women. Using a holistic approach to kink, Sarah will guide you through a meditation and reflection practice to support you in your submissive journey.
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Rules and Rituals for Power Play
6th March 2025 – ONLINE
BDSM goes way beyond a spank, a choke and a hair pull, so forget the fluffy handcuffs because in this workshop, we will go beyond the surface to explore the powerful tools which are rules and rituals.
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Discipline and Punishment
20th March 2025 – ONLINE
Discipline – the other D in BDSM that rarely gets spoken about. Discipline is an important part of creating a successful power exchange dynamic, and if you’re looking for some inspiration when it comes to training, disciplining and punishing your submissive partner, then this workshop is for you.
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Sensual Wax Play Workshop
27th March 2025 – LONDON
Join Sub in the City for an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration and turn your bodies into glow in the dark masterpieces. Guided by Integrative Kink Therapist Sarah Butcher (Sub in the City) and our house Dom & sub, you’ll discover the sensual art of wax play, learning the skills and techniques to play with temperature safely and skillfully.
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Cocktails & Kink Spring Social
10th April 2025 – LONDON
Join Sarah and the Sub in the City team for their Cocktails & Kink April Birthday edition, featuring kinky conversation, cocktails, spicy performances and kinky activities to explore. There’s also a prize for the kinkiest bunny outfit!
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A Guide to Kinky Etiquette
9th April 2025 – ONLINE
Are you new to kink and looking to make new kinky connections? Perhaps you don’t know where to find likeminded people or feel a little shy when it comes to bringing up kink in conversation? In this workshop on Kinky Etiquette, we’ll cover a variety of topics to help you start to feel a little more confident in navigating the BDSM & Kink world.
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Switching 101
17th April 2025 – ONLINE
What do you do when you identify with both the role of Dominant and submissive? Switching can be tricky to navigate if you don’t know where to start, but Sarah from Sub in the City is here to help…
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La Casa del Kink
Friday 25th – Mon 28th April ’25 – LISBON
A Conscious Kink Retreat: Lisbon, Portugal
Step into La Casa del Kink in April’25 and join Sub in the City for the ultimate weekend of conscious kink, where we’re extending an invitation to curious kinksters who wish to consciously explore what BDSM & kink means to them.
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A guide to Consensual Non-Consent
8th May 2025 – ONLINE
Have you ever fantasised about being taken by a stranger against your will? Well, you’re not alone. Consensual-non consent is a common kink that is often not talked about because of its taboo, but in this workshop, we are going to talk openly about how to explore this style of role play.
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Erotic Impact Play Workshop
15th May 2025 – LONDON
Immerse yourself in a decadent 4-hour journey of sensuality and skill at Sub in the City’s exclusive Erotic Impact Play Workshop. Designed to awaken your deepest desires, this luxurious experience will guide you through the art of spanking for pleasure—and pain—with finesse and passion.
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