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Individual BDSM Exploratory session (1 hour, online)

Do you want to feel empowered to explore your kinks confidently?
In this 1-1 session with me, we can explore what BDSM and kink means to you, helping you navigate your desires and begin to understand how to explore the things you enjoy most. You’ll have the opportunity to ask any questions, discuss any areas of concern or worry, get expert advice, tips and tricks or simply someone to speak to. Together we can set some personal goals/intentions for you to go away and work on. Topics we could cover include, but are not limited to:
· Getting started with BDSM
· Establishing your role/kinks
· Understanding you/your partner’s limits & boundaries
· Communication & consent
· Ideas for scenes, rituals, tasks and more · Taking your kinky dynamic to the next level
· Altered states, emotional & physical wellbeing, aftercare · Toys, tools, equipment and environment
£ 111
  • Your kinky questions answered
  • Tailored education & mentorship
  • Kinky homework and resources to support your learning
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Please note, this is professional coaching/mentoring designed to facilitate your growth and understanding of BDSM & Kink. These sessions are not a substitute for therapy. I will use my knowledge and experience to empower and educate you to own your kink and create the sex life you desire.

Couples BDSM Exploratory session (90 mins, online)

Do you want to feel empowered to explore your kinks confidently together as a couple?
In this 1-1 session with me, we can explore what BDSM and kink means to each of you, helping you navigate your desires and begin to understand how to explore the things you enjoy most. You’ll have the opportunity to ask any questions, discuss any areas of concern or worry, get expert advice, tips and tricks or simply someone to speak to. Together we can set some personal goals/intentions for you to go away and work on as a couple. Topics we could cover include, but are not limited to:
· Getting started with BDSM
· Establishing your role/kinks
· Understanding you/your partner’s limits & boundaries
· Communication & consent
· Ideas for scenes, rituals, tasks and more · Taking your kinky dynamic to the next level
· Altered states, emotional & physical wellbeing, aftercare · Toys, tools, equipment and environment
£ 222
  • Your kinky questions answered
  • Tailored education & mentorship
  • Kinky homework and resources to support your learning
  • 30 minute follow up to ensure success
Book now
Please note, this is professional coaching/mentoring designed to facilitate your growth and understanding of BDSM & Kink. These sessions are not a substitute for therapy. I will use my knowledge and experience to empower and educate you to own your kink and create the sex life you desire.

Couples private workshop/coaching session with Sarah (2 hours, Face-to-face, London)

Would you prefer a private face to face session?
All private coaching sessions are held in my Dungeon venue in Hackney and are tailored to your needs. Private sessions are for 2 people and run similarly to online sessions, with the added benefit of having live demos and tutorials with the equipment and toys of your choice.
£ 555
  • Your kinky questions answered
  • Demos & instruction on toys and equipment
  • Tailored education & mentorship
  • Kinky homework and resources to support your learning
  • 30 minute follow up to ensure success
Book now
Please note, this is professional coaching/mentoring designed to facilitate your growth and understanding of BDSM & Kink. These sessions are NOT professional Domination sessions and no play with me is involved, nor are the sessions a substitute for therapy. I will use my knowledge and experience to empower and educate you to own your kink and create the sex life you desire. Please also ensure you are comfortable with the terms and conditions and cancellation policy.
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Therapy/counselling (50 minutes, weekly)

Did you know I am also a qualified Humanistic Integrative Therapist? Are you looking for a kink-aware/friendly therapist? While the issues you are seeking therapy for may not have anything to do with your sex or kink life, kink can be a big part of our relationships and lifestyle, which will inevitably come into conversation with your therapist at some point.
I know what it is like to be on the recieving end of a disapproving and judgemental mental health professional when it comes to discussing BDSM, Kink and other alternative relationship and sexual styles.
If you are seeking counselling for whatever reason, I can provide a safe space to be free to open up about kink should you want or need to.
£ £250 per month
  • Weekly 50-minute sessions
  • Remote or F2F sessions (F2F Bournemouth only)
  • Person-Centred approach
  • MBACP registered
  • Working with a variety of presenting issues including anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, low self-esteem, relationship struggles, grief and loss, and much more.
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Please note, therapy is different to the coaching I offer. While you may wish to discuss sexual issues during our sessions, the therapy I offer is not sex therapy specifically and I will always let you know if I believe you may need a referral to a psychosexual therapist. I work with a range of presenting issues in adults and my counselling style is person-centred, meaning it is non-directive which is the very opposite to coaching/mentorship. Please email me if you are unsure what is the best way in which to work with me.
To enquire about larger private group bookings or to book me as a guest educator/speaker, please email me to discuss my availability and rates.
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