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What is a Daddy Kink? Everything you need to know about DDLG
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How to be a Sissy! An introduction to sissification
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The Best Impact Toys for Beginners
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The Kinkiest Cities in the World to Visit
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A Guide to Dom/sub Contracting
How, when, and why to create a Dom/sub contract for your power play dynamic Are you exploring Dominant and submissive role play but feel like …
A Guide to FemDom
Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice …
BDSM Collars: How, when and why to use a collar in your BDSM play
In BDSM, collars are accessories, usually worn around the neck, that can be used during play or in day-to-day life to reflect a person’s role …
The best and worst of Kinky TV
Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of …
What’s your kinky love language?
A guide to the five love languages and how to incorporate them into BDSM When looking at relationships, the five love languages tell us how …
What is Service Submission?
Top tips for becoming a great service submissive Service submissive is a type of role associated with Dom/Sub dynamics, which focuses on the Submissive’s dedication …
How to vet a submissive
5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Submissives Have you just met a potential play partner but don’t know what your next step …
What is Cuckholding?
The term ‘cuckolding’ has become a top adult hit on searches recently (with the UK and Netherlands topping the list) so this week I look …
A Guide to Chastity
Chastity, the act of restricting some or all kinds of sexual pleasure, involves intense denial, control and perseverance. By wearing a chastity cage or belt, …
What is Primal Play?
Primal Play merges the boundaries between the human and the animal world, in this guide, I talk you through this fantasy world where the participants …
What is CBT?
Top tips for exploring C*ck & Ball Torture CBT is a lesser-known kink that falls within the BDSM world towards the sado-masochism end of the …
Foot Fetish
A foot fetish, also known as podophilia, is a sexual attraction or interest in feet. People with a foot fetish derive sexual pleasure or arousal …
The Best Bondage Rope for Beginners
Rope play, also known as rope bondage or Shibari, is a consensual BDSM activity involving ropes to restrain, bind, or suspend a person for erotic …
A Guide to Pet Play
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Kinky Weekender: The best BDSM Dungeons in London
Looking for the best BDSM Dungeons in London? Look no further! London, the cosmopolitan capital of England, is a city that offers so much to …
Bratty Submissives: Everything you need to know about being one and being with one
How to navigate D/s dynamics as a Brat ‘Brat’ is a role within BDSM that you might come across during your power play journey. Instead …
Sub Mode Activated: Sub Frenzy, Sub Space & Sub Drop Explained
How to navigate different stages in your submissive journey BDSM relationships involve a power dynamic between a dominant and a submissive partner. As such, submissives …
Hurts so good: Navigating kink with chronic pain
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Solo Submission: Tips for establishing your kinky identity when single
Being single and submissive can be a frustrating experience, especially when it comes to expressing your submissive identity. It is sometimes challenging to find a …
How to vet a dominant
5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Dominants There’s nothing more exciting than meeting a potential Dominant, but how do you know if …
5 Ways to Reward your Submissive
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What is Age Play?
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A Guide to Sensual Dominance
5 Ways to be more Dominant without being sadistic When most people think of Dom and Sub relationships they think, of pain, obedience, and total …
The best kinky networking sites
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Playing well with others: A guide to sex party etiquette
Top tips for navigating your first play, kink, or fetish party Ok, I’m ready! If you’re ready to get out there and mingle with some …
A Quick Guide to Consent
What is consent, why it’s important and how to practice it Consent may seem like a simple concept, but it can look and feel different …
5 ways to play with a Masochist
Have you ever wondered why pain hurts so good? A masochist is defined as someone who derives pleasure, often sexual gratification, from experiencing pain or …
5 signs you’ve hit a plateau on your kink journey
There comes a time in any journey where we feel like we’ve slowed down, or that we’re stuck altogether, and the same goes for kink. …
What Dominant style suits you best?
When it comes to BDSM, one of the biggest misconceptions is that it’s all about pain, humiliation and degradation. But this couldn’t be further from …
The other ‘D’ in BDSM: Introducing Discipline and Rules to your D/s dynamic
Discipline and rules are a common practice for those in a Dominant/submissive dynamic, but not everyone enjoys the discipline aspect of BDSM. If you’re looking …
BDSM & altered states: what is dissociation and how to stay grounded
What is dissociation in BDSM? Some believe it’s the same as subspace or topspace, some believe it’s completely different. In this article, I talk you …
BDSM Punishments: Tips, tricks and ideas for punishing your sub
BDSM Punishments are an important part of a Dom/sub dynamic, they are an effective way to whip your submissive into shape (sometimes quite literally) when …
An introduction to anal play
Butt stuff – you either love it or fear it greatly until you try it. One of the most common differences of opinion I see …
BDSM Debunked: 5 misconceptions about BDSM relationships
Thought BDSM was all about whips and chains, rough sex, and hidden trauma? Think again. On behalf of all the kinksters out there, here are …
Consensual non-consent: What is ‘rape play’ and how to do it safely
Have you ever had a fantasy about sex with a stranger? How about sex you didn’t consent to? Well, you’re not alone. In this blog, …
Bondage for beginners: An introduction to physical and psychological bondage play
Bondage is one of the most common forms of power play and can be used as part of a BDSM scene, or in any sexual …
3 Reasons to introduce BDSM into your relationship
BDSM often gets misunderstood as something extreme that should be reserved for the dark corners of the internet, or rich businessmen (here’s looking at you, …
Imposter Syndrome and kink-shaming in BDSM
In a world dominated by social media, we have grown ever-so hard on ourselves, constantly comparing our journeys and achievements to others, wondering if we …
