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BDSM Collars: How, when and why to use a collar in your BDSM play
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Kinky Weekender: The best BDSM Dungeons in London
Looking for the best BDSM Dungeons in London? Look no further! London, the cosmopolitan capital of England, is a city …
Bratty Submissives: Everything you need to know about being one and being with one
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Sub Mode Activated: Sub Frenzy, Sub Space & Sub Drop Explained
How to navigate different stages in your submissive journey BDSM relationships involve a power dynamic between a dominant and a …
Hurts so good: Navigating kink with chronic pain
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Solo Submission: Tips for establishing your kinky identity when single
Being single and submissive can be a frustrating experience, especially when it comes to expressing your submissive identity. It is …
How to vet a dominant
5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Dominants There’s nothing more exciting than meeting a potential Dominant, but …
5 Ways to Reward your Submissive
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What is Age Play?
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A Guide to Sensual Dominance
5 Ways to be more Dominant without being sadistic When most people think of Dom and Sub relationships they think, …
The best kinky networking sites
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Playing well with others: A guide to sex party etiquette
Top tips for navigating your first play, kink, or fetish party Ok, I’m ready! If you’re ready to get out …
A Quick Guide to Consent
What is consent, why it’s important and how to practice it Consent may seem like a simple concept, but it …
A Guide to Dom/sub Contracting
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5 ways to play with a Masochist
Have you ever wondered why pain hurts so good? A masochist is defined as someone who derives pleasure, often sexual …
5 signs you’ve hit a plateau on your kink journey
There comes a time in any journey where we feel like we’ve slowed down, or that we’re stuck altogether, and …
What Dominant style suits you best?
When it comes to BDSM, one of the biggest misconceptions is that it’s all about pain, humiliation and degradation. But …
The other ‘D’ in BDSM: Introducing Discipline and Rules to your D/s dynamic
Discipline and rules are a common practice for those in a Dominant/submissive dynamic, but not everyone enjoys the discipline aspect …
BDSM & altered states: what is dissociation and how to stay grounded
What is dissociation in BDSM? Some believe it’s the same as subspace or topspace, some believe it’s completely different. In …
BDSM Punishments: Tips, tricks and ideas for punishing your sub
BDSM Punishments are an important part of a Dom/sub dynamic, they are an effective way to whip your submissive into …
An introduction to anal play
Butt stuff – you either love it or fear it greatly until you try it. One of the most common …
BDSM Debunked: 5 misconceptions about BDSM relationships
Thought BDSM was all about whips and chains, rough sex, and hidden trauma? Think again. On behalf of all the …
Consensual non-consent: What is ‘rape play’ and how to do it safely
Have you ever had a fantasy about sex with a stranger? How about sex you didn’t consent to? Well, you’re …
Bondage for beginners: An introduction to physical and psychological bondage play
Bondage is one of the most common forms of power play and can be used as part of a BDSM …
3 Reasons to introduce BDSM into your relationship
BDSM often gets misunderstood as something extreme that should be reserved for the dark corners of the internet, or rich …
Imposter Syndrome and kink-shaming in BDSM
In a world dominated by social media, we have grown ever-so hard on ourselves, constantly comparing our journeys and achievements …
