Sunday 11th October @ 3pm-5.30pm Bournemouth, BH1 Kink and Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing UV Halloween Edition Join us for an afternoon of arts and kink in this life drawing workshop. Kink and Sketch is our artistic kinky workshop, where we explore the sensuality of the human body through an artistic lens. In this intimate life […]
Sunday 10th May 3-5pm 2026 – Bournemouth, BH1 Aftercare: A practice of Grounding After Intense Play High-intensity scenes can take us into altered space – physically, emotionally and psychologically. Whether you’re exploring D/s dynamics, impact, rope, primal play or other forms of kink, what happens after the scene matters just as much as what happens
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Saturday 12th December – Central Bournemouth Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for an exclusive, intimate Christmas Dungeon Social We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Christmas Dungeon Social where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light
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This week we look at ‘sissification’, this fairly common kink is very often held by men who want to experience domination blended with a fantasy to dress or act like a woman. “Sissification” is a term typically used within the context of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) and fetish communities. It refers
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SITC’s round-up of the best tools for spanking If you’ve wanted to progress your play past restraints and blindfolds, spanking is often the next step and can heighten the kinkiness of a play session whilst providing some role-playing opportunities. Spanking is more technically known as ‘impact play’ and can incorporate a whole lot more than
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Where to travel for the best BDSM events, clubs and lifestyle If you’re looking for a destination that’s daring, adventurous, and pushes the boundaries of sexual expression, then you might be interested in exploring the kinkiest cities in the world. The cities below are known for their vibrant and diverse alternative scenes, where people can
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How, when, and why to create a Dom/sub contract for your power play dynamic Are you exploring Dominant and submissive role play but feel like something’s missing? Perhaps you’re ready to take things to the next level or want to express your commitment to this new lifestyle in a significant way? Then perhaps it’s time
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Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice a femdom dynamic, play mostly revolves around harnessing feminine energy to assert dominance, or exploring the masculinity associated with domination to affirm a Dominant role. There’s lots to explore within
In BDSM, collars are accessories, usually worn around the neck, that can be used during play or in day-to-day life to reflect a person’s role within a power play dynamic. Collars have been popular throughout LGBTQ+ history and within many alternative subcultures, but there’s a strong association between collars and kink. Because there’s so much
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Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of BDSM in the media, kink dynamics often get a bad rep. Portrayals of BDSM within mainstream media can often be shamed, made into a joke or misrepresented. Hollywood often shows
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