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Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice a femdom dynamic, play mostly revolves around harnessing feminine energy to assert dominance, or exploring the masculinity associated with domination to affirm a Dominant role. There’s lots to explore within
In BDSM, collars are accessories, usually worn around the neck, that can be used during play or in day-to-day life to reflect a person’s role within a power play dynamic. Collars have been popular throughout LGBTQ+ history and within many alternative subcultures, but there’s a strong association between collars and kink. Because there’s so much
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Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of BDSM in the media, kink dynamics often get a bad rep. Portrayals of BDSM within mainstream media can often be shamed, made into a joke or misrepresented. Hollywood often shows
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