This week we look at ‘sissification’, this fairly common kink is very often held by men who want to experience domination blended with a fantasy to dress or act like a woman.
“Sissification” is a term typically used within the context of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) and fetish communities. It refers to a form of role-playing or fantasy where a person, often a male, is made to assume the appearance, behavior, or role associated with traditional femininity. The term is derived from the word “sissy,” which historically referred to a boy or man who was considered effeminate or lacking in masculinity.
In sissification scenarios, the individual who desires or consents to being “sissified” often takes on feminine attire, makeup, and mannerisms. This may involve wearing women’s clothing, such as lingerie, dresses, or high heels, applying makeup, styling their hair, and adopting stereotypical feminine gestures or behaviors. The person undergoing sissification might also be subjected to humiliation, degradation, or other forms of domination as part of the role-play.
I’ve outlined below five ways that you might want to try this one out, to see if it’s the kink for you. As always it’s important to have the discussion with your play partner first outlining what you both want to achieve from the session, things you would like to try and what both of your limits are.
- Clothing and Attire:
Wearing women’s clothing, such as lingerie, dresses, skirts, stockings, or high heels, can be a significant aspect of sissification. The act of donning feminine attire can help create the desired aesthetic and role. For this one, you could put yourself purely in the hands of your partner and allow them to dress you as they wish or you could provide them with a theme and let them get creative.
- Makeup and Beauty:
Applying makeup, including foundation, eye shadow, lipstick, or nail polish, can be incorporated into sissification. This may involve learning and practicing various makeup techniques to achieve a more feminine appearance. The slow and prolonged process of the application of the makeup can build tension between partners and help to ramp up the excitement.
- Behaviors and Mannerisms:
Adopting stereotypical feminine behaviors, gestures, and mannerisms can be an integral part of sissification. This might include walking, talking, sitting, or interacting in a more traditionally feminine way. For the more advanced, this could even involve a trip out of the home for full immersion. Of course, do so in an environment where you feel safe and comfortable such as a festival or kink party.
- Humiliation and Domination:
Sissification may involve elements of humiliation or domination, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. This can range from verbal humiliation and degradation to more physical or psychological forms of domination.
- Role-Play Scenarios:
Engaging in role-play scenarios can add depth and context to sissification. This may involve creating a scenario where the sissified individual interacts with a dominant partner or assumes a specific role within a predetermined fantasy; try reversing your roles at home, or building a scenario where you take on another position in the relationship.
Remember, like all kinky activities, these should only be pursued by consenting adults who have discussed their desires, and boundaries, and established a safe, sane, and consensual framework. Consent, communication, and mutual respect are paramount in any kink or BDSM activity.