Sub in the City

Kink Coaching Packages

The Couples' BDSM Exploratory Package

With Sarah Salazar & Master Carlos

Do you want to learn a new kinky skill, or get some support or guidance on how to take things to the next level in your kink exploration? Then the Couples’ BDSM Exploratory Package is for you.

Across a series of 2-hour sessions in a fully equipped BDSM Studio in Bournemouth, you’ll be invited to explore your desires with confidence under the guidance of Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator, Sarah Salazar, and her Husband and Professional Dominant, Master Carlos.

Wherever you are on your kink journey, Sarah & Master Carlos will tailor your package to suit your needs, from curious newbies looking to try something new, through to seasoned kinksters looking to deepen their dynamic.

Sessions are designed for couples who wish to have personalised support and guidance on how to implement new practical skills into their kinky lifestyle, this could include but is not limited to things such as:

  • Impact Play Skills
  • Sensory Play Skills
  • Temperature Play Skills
  • Dominance & Submission
  • Scene creation 
  • Creating your kinky lifestyle 
  • Rules & Rituals 
  • Discipline & Punishment
  • Dirty talk 
  • Aftercare
  • Building confidence
  • & more

All sessions are held in Bournemouth in the fully-equipped Sub in the City BDSM Studio space.

What to expect?

Expect to be welcomed into a decadent, private and modern BDSM Studio in Bournemouth with a professional yet playful vibe.

During the first session, we’ll take some time to understand your journey so far, and your goals and expectations for the sessions. 

Together we’ll map out a journey of exploration and education that will fill you with confidence and clarity in your desires. 

Sessions are a mix of talking and discussion, bringing a mix of candid questions and conscious enquiry to support you in understanding your desires, along with hands-on, practical education, demos and explorative play at your own level of comfortability with each other. 

The Beginners Bundle (three 2-hour Sessions) - £1500

The Deep Dive (six 2-hour sessions) - £2500

Online Kink Coaching with Sarah Salazar

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing your Dom/sub relationship or learning new skills, or it could be the first step in exploring and discovering your desires with someone to support you in understanding what to do with them.

Working with our kinks can be incredibly healing. When we start to explore our kinks and assess our attitudes, values and beliefs around our kinks, it can open up the door to our shadow self, allowing us to get curious about all of the parts of ourselves that may need a little love and attention. 

I am a big believer that connecting with our sexual self can improve all areas of our lives, and through the exploration of kink, we can look at many other aspects of our shadow self, including limiting beliefs, the inner child, confidence, shame, attachment, trauma, and much more to fully step into our most authentic selves. 

Reasons you may wish to invest in Integrative Kink Therapy & Coaching:

Work on your D/s dynamic with a partner

Relationship issues, conflicts or mismatch of desire

Learning how to create, maintain and enjoy a fulfilling kinky lifestyle

Kinky dating support 

Learning about kink and discovering what you’re into 

Working through limiting beliefs, blockages or trauma that may be hindering your kink experiences

Learn a specific skill

Deepen your understanding of your sexual self 

Create more intimacy and connection in your relationships

All sessions are held online on Zoom and are 60 minutes long for individual sessions and 90 minutes for couples sessions. 

Kink-friendly Therapy/Counselling

Did you know I am also a qualified Humanistic Integrative Therapist?

Are you looking for a kink-aware/friendly therapist?

While the issues you are seeking therapy for may not have anything to do with your sex or kink life, kink can be a big part of our relationships and lifestyle, which will inevitably come into conversation with your therapist at some point.

I know what it is like to be on the receiving end of a disapproving and judgmental mental health professional when it comes to discussing BDSM, Kink and other alternative relationship and sexual styles.

If you are seeking counselling for whatever reason, I can provide a safe space to explore whatever you may need support with, with the peace of mind you can be free to open up about kink should you want or need to.

Typically counselling sessions are 50 minutes long and are attended on a weekly basis at the same time and day. 

Sessions can be held online on Zoom, or F2F at my therapy office in Bournemouth. 

Please send me an email and we can set up a call to discuss your needs and to see if we’d be the right fit to work together.

Investment

50 Minute session – £65

To enquire about larger private group bookings or to book me as a guest educator/speaker, please email me to discuss my availability and rates.