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Counselling & Therapy with Sarah Salazar

Sarah Salazar - Integrative Therapist, Coach & Educator , Dip, MBACP

Hi I’m Sarah, an Integrative Therapist based in Bournemouth, Dorset, offering sessions to individuals and couples online and in person in the BH1 area.

With a background in training as a Humanistic Integrative Therapist, my approach to working with humans starts with knowing that you are the expert in your own world and that you have the capability to live a life that feels authentically aligned with your true values, beliefs and desires.  

While my specialism is in sex and couples therapy, however I have been working in private practice with adult individuals with a variety of everyday presenting challenges, and am here to support you to find clarity and peace in your every day life whatever you might be going through right now.

Reasons for seeking could include but are not limited to:

  • Anxiety/Depression/Stress
  • Self-esteem and confidence
  • Heartbreak, grief, loss or unexpected change
  • Trauma, childhood and family challenges
  • Relationships, sexuality and body confidence
  • Career, lifestyle, personal development

About Sarah Salazar

As an Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator, specialising in working with Individuals and Couples on Kink, BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Relationships, my experience also translates into offering therapy through the lens of Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), meaning my therapy room is a safe space for sex-positive, kink-informed, poly-aware, and LGBTQIA+ friendly therapy for individuals and couples. 

While your main reasons for seeking counselling may not directly be related to your sexuality or relationships, I know how important it is to feel comfortable to share these aspects of your life should they need to come up in therapy.

I have over 13 years of personal experience in Kink, BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Relationships, and have been a coach and educator in this space for over 6 years. I am a big believer that working with our sexuality is the key to healing in many other aspects of our life. 

When we dive into sex, especially kink, it unlocks the door to our shadow self, which in turn allows us to connect with other parts of ourselves that may need some care and attention. This could include but is not limited to, limiting beliefs, inner child work, confidence and self esteem, trauma, shame, attachment and much more. 

Whether you’re looking to explore your desires and understand more about your kinks, or you’re facing some challenges related to your sexuality, desires, intimacy & relationships, our work together will use compassionate and conscious inquiry into your thoughts and feelings and can draw on a variety of theories and tools from different aspects of psychology, spirituality, and mindfulness, to support you in your journey to living in alignment with your highest, most authentic self. 

Sessions can be held online on Zoom, or F2F in Bournemouth. 

Individual Adult Counselling Sessions, 50 Minutes - £65