La Casa del kink
The Conscious Kink Retreat
Lisbon, Portugal
Friday 24th -Monday 27th April 2026
La Casa del Kink is returning to Lisbon in April 2026! Join Sub in the City for the ultimate weekend of conscious kink, where we’re extending an invitation to curious kinksters who wish to consciously explore what Kink means to them.
We’re inviting a limited number of people both solo and from a variety of constellations, to join us at a beautiful villa in Portugal, just 40 minutes from Lisbon, where we will share a gorgeous weekend together full of kinky education, connection, communication and socialising.
The eco-retreat we will call home for a long weekend features a variety of double bedrooms, single shared bedrooms and individual casitas (little houses) where you can enjoy your stay in peace and tranquility.
The weekend’s itinerary will include a carefully curated selection of kinky workshops, activities and personal coaching from Sub in the City and friends, including some guest facilitators that will allow you to take a deep dive into your desires.
Educational Workshops
From conscious communication, to practical skills in sensation play, bondage, building confidence in your body, exploring Dom/sub energy, and how to create exciting and fulfilling BDSM Scenes and dynamics, we’ll be doing a deep dive into some a wide variety of kinky topics to support you in your exploration.
Please note, workshops are designed to suit all experience levels and can be tailored to suit your comfortability. You are not expected to partake in anything you don’t want to, and we will always have alternative options for you to explore.
Opening Cacao Ceremony
Start the weekend with a heart opening cacao ceremony led by Sarah.
Cacao is a natural mood booster and heart opener that has been used for centuries in sacred rituals to connect to the heart space. As we drink this delicious chocolate and sink into a guided meditation by Sarah, we can allow ourselves to be open and seen in this beautiful space we are creating together.
In this space we will introduce ourselves, negotiate the rules and etiquette for the weekend, and set our intentions for the days ahead as we embark on a journey of learning and discovery.
Sensual Confidence and Body Admiration
Kick the workshops off with one of Sub in the City’s favourite sassy sensualists – BxSassy!
This workshop will allow you to let loose, let go of any fears, insecurities or judgements, connect with your mind, body and soul, ready for a weekend of conscious exploration.
A transformative journey of self-discovery and body connection. This workshop explores:
- Mindful movement and body awareness
- Identifying and releasing personal shame
- Sensual movement techniques
- Consensual self-touch and compassionate body massage
- Guided partner touch exercises with explicit consent protocols
Erotic Impact & Sensation Play
Kick off day 2 with a deep dive into the world of pain and pleasure!
Guided by Sarah and demonstrated by Master Carlos, we’ll explore the erotic art of impact and sensation play, including everything from tools, techniques, positions and skills to go on a journey of sensational pleasure.
Impact is not always about who can strike the hardest! It can be incredibly sensual and erotic. We’ll show you how to explore different sensations safely and sensually.
Master Carlos will also be available for mini guided sessions for anyone who would like to experience impact play from a Pro Dom.
UV Wax Play
Saturday night heats up as we turn each others bodies into glow in the dark masterpieces in our UV Wax Play Workshop!
Explore the art of temperature play as Sarah and Master Carlos guide you through the art and skill of wax play under the UV lights.
This is a fun, creative workshop that will bring out your artistic side. Will you go slow and sensual or enjoy the squirm of your partner as they wriggle beneath your flame?
We use 100% soy wax which is body safe and designed for bondage, burning at a much lower temperature that does not burn, but simply melts deliciously onto the skin.
Conscious Kink Scene Building
We begin to bring some structure to your play as we explore the art of creative scene building.
Learn the foundations of creating exciting play sessions in BDSM and how to consciously create a scene with intention.
You’ll get to see a real life demo from Master Carlos and our House Sub, and start to think outside the box when it comes to coming up with your own ideas for play.
This workshop will help you start to connect the dots regarding what you enjoy and how you want to experience play.
Shibari Skills
Wrap up your learning by practicing some essential bondage skills that are sure to create deeper intimacy and connection in your play.
Our guest facilitators will take you on an emotive journey of exploring rope as an extension of yourself, and as a way to convey or communicate intention.
Whether tying with a partner or self-tying, this workshop is a beautiful expression of self exploration.
Closing Fire Ceremony
As we close the weekend, we’ll gather once more, this time around the fire to share our stories and insights from our journey together.
This will be our chance to reflect, share and give thanks to one another for the time we’ve shared together.
Things usually get a little emosh on the last day, so tears and laughter are to be expected, and it’s a safe space to do so!
We’ll say our goodbyes, have one last drink together on our final night before departure the next morning.
Activities & Entertainment
As well as educational workshops we have a selection of kinky activities and entertainment that are a great way to enjoy some down time whilst still being engaged.
Activities and performances are optional, but we encourage the group to enjoy these together just as much as the workshops!
Kinky Life Drawing
Relax by the pool in the sunshine with a glass of wine and enjoy our Kinky Life Drawing Class.
We encourage everyone to get involved, no matter how skilled at drawing you are. You can choose to draw, model or simply observe as you soak up the sunshine and enjoy the vibes.
This is a great group bonding activity and a way to decompress between workshops, utilising our villa’s stunning grounds and pool.
Sassy Sunrise Stretch
For the early birds in the group, you can join our wonderful BxSassy for a morning sassy stretch and flow on the yoga deck.
Start your day feeling rejuvinated before a delicious breakfast cooked by our in-house chef!
Explore the wonderful grounds this casa has to offer and prepare for a day of beautiful learning and exploration.
The Kinky Cabaret
The Sassy Strip and Tease: Cabaret Kink Experience
Experience an electrifying performance celebrating self-expression and sensual confidence.
Featuring provocative dance, music, and a bold celebration of personal empowerment, BxSassy delights us once more with this evening cabaret experience that will ignite a fire in your belly and encourage you to get up a express your sassy self!
Shibari Performance
End your weekend with an intense and mesmerising shibari performance that will leave you in awe.
We’ll follow a journey of pain, pleasure, love and endurance featuring suspension and intentional bondage from a professional rigger and rope bunny.
Think of this like the kinky opera – it’s immersive and raw and beautiful!
Food & drink
Meals and drinks are included in your ticket price for the retreat. We have an in-house chef cooking up fresh meals each day including things like cooked breakfasts, wood-fired pizzas, tapas, paella and much more!
We can cater to all dietary requirements and menu choices will be sent approximately 4 weeks prior to the retreat.
Your ticket includes 3 lunches, 3 breakfasts and 3 dinners.
Wine, beer, soft drinks and hot drinks are also included in the cost of the retreat, however if you wish to drink any spirits, please bring your own.
Accommodation
The villa is made up of private rooms, shared rooms and private casitas (little apartments) and shared casitas.
Due to the limited availability, private rooms are available for duos or those who would like to share privately with people of their choosing.
However we cannot guarantee a private room for one person. Please speak to us if you would like to book out a whole room for yourself.
We will do our best to accommodate your preferences when booking.
Private Double Bedroom with Private Bathroom or ensuite
We have 2 double bedrooms with private bathrooms, both are located up one flight of stairs.
Rooms remaining: 1
Shared Casita with bathroom, kitchenette and shared roof terrace
Choose from a single or queen bed in a shared casita.
Open plan apartments for up to 3 or 4 people. One with a mezzanine room upstairs (queen bed) and 3 singles downstairs, and one ground floor, accessible casita.
Spots remaining: 5
Shared Bedrooms with ensuite bathroom
Single bed or queen bed in shared bedrooms, dorm style (interconnecting doors between 2 rooms) and can have use of the ensuite and also another toilet downstairs.
Located up one flight of stairs.
Spots remaining: 4
Accessible ground floor bedroom with ensuite
A ground floor ensuite bedroom with shower room and two double beds.
Suitable for a couple, or 2 singles who would like a bit of extra space.
Rooms remaining: 1
Private Ground Floor Casita for 2 with bathroom and kitchenette
For those who want some extra space and privacy, a private casita is the way to go!
If yo book out the whole casita for just 2 people, you’ll get some extra VIP perks including:
- Early check in and late check out
- An extra 1 hour coaching session post retreat to follow up
- Access to my 6 week Conscious Kink Course post retreat
- A welcome hamper with goodies
What's included in the retreat?
3 nights accommodation
All meals: 3 breakfasts, 3 lunches, 3 dinners
Beer, wine, soft drinks, teas & coffees
All workshops & activities
All equipment and tools needed for the weekend
Evening performances/entertainment
1 hour coaching session post retreat (online)
Kinky goodies and resources to take home
What's not included?
Flights
Transfers
Any other food and drink you would like
Personal insurances
Who is this retreat for?
This retreat is for anyone who is curious about kink and serious about learning new skills, discovering their desires and connecting and having fun with like-minded people.
We’re calling any solo kinksters looking to find their kinky tribe, groups of friends who want to build confidence on the scene together and duos, couples, triads, and any other constellations looking to connect to their kinks on a deeper level – this weekend retreat is the perfect place for you.
This retreat is for you if:
- You’re curious about kink and open minded to learning new ways of connection
- You’ve been exploring kink for a while and want to deepen your knowledge/exploration
- You’re an experienced kinkster but want to dive deeper and connect/reconnect to yourself and/or your partner(s)
- You want to consciously connect with new friends of all ages, genders and sexualities in a no-pressure environment
- You want to make new friends on the kink scene
- You’re open to a mindful, conscious approach to life
This retreat is NOT for you if:
- You’re not open minded and feel resistant to learn
- You’re judgmental of certain kinks that are not your own
- You’re looking for a sex party or place to hook up
- Difference and diversity makes you uncomfortable
Important note before you apply:
This retreat is about education, exploration and community.
This is NOT a play/sex party weekend.
We value respect and consent highly and have a strict no-tolerance policy for any inappropriate behaviour.
We will spend some time exploring the rules and etiquette for our time together during our opening ceremony.
During this weekend we encourage you to leave your expectations and preconceptions around sexuality at the door, and we can guarantee a rich and fulfilling weekend of exploring your desires with confidence, connecting and reconnecting to yourself and your partner(s) and making friends for life.
Meet your facilitators
Sarah
Sub in the City founder, Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator
Master Carlos
Bx Sassy
Sensual instructor and movement coach
House Model
Sub in the City’s model & performer
Monad and Morgana
Register to apply
To ensure we curate our guestlist as carefully as we have curated our content, places on this retreat will be available via application only.
Please fill in the registration form and we will arrange a video call to meet and discuss if this event is the right fit.
We will be vetting people to ensure they align to the Sub in the City attitudes and values, as well as understand and respect the guidelines and etiquette of the kink community.
Investment
Investment starts at £1300pp for shared accommodation and from £1750pp for private accommodation.
Payments plans are available. Pay just a £500pp deposit to secure your spot today!
Cancel before 01st September for a full refund.
Cancel before 30th December for a partial refund (deposit will be kept).
No refunds after 01st January 2026.
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