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What is Sub Space in BDSM? Sub space is a term often discussed in BDSM circles but can seem like a mythical state. It describes an altered, trance-like state that submissives might experience during an intense scene. Some compare it to a runner’s high, meditation, or even an out-of-body experience, where the submissive feels “floaty” […]

Explore your desires in more depth and finally try out that fantasy you can’t get out of your head. I’m here to share some quick and easy tips to get started on your kink journey. Because the world of kink can definitely feel overwhelming, especially if you’re brand new to it, but even if you’ve

What does it mean to be a Daddy Dom and why do subs like it so much?  Why is it that it’s quite commonplace for people to openly discuss their desire to be choked in the bedroom, yet talking about your Daddy kink will have some people looking at you like you just said you

This week we look at ‘sissification’, this fairly common kink is very often held by men who want to experience domination blended with a fantasy to dress or act like a woman. “Sissification” is a term typically used within the context of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) and fetish communities. It refers

SITC’s round-up of the best tools for spanking If you’ve wanted to progress your play past restraints and blindfolds, spanking is often the next step and can heighten the kinkiness of a play session whilst providing some role-playing opportunities. Spanking is more technically known as ‘impact play’ and can incorporate a whole lot more than

Where to travel for the best BDSM events, clubs and lifestyle If you’re looking for a destination that’s daring, adventurous, and pushes the boundaries of sexual expression, then you might be interested in exploring the kinkiest cities in the world. The cities below are known for their vibrant and diverse alternative scenes, where people can

How, when, and why to create a Dom/sub contract for your power play dynamic  Are you exploring Dominant and submissive role play but feel like something’s missing? Perhaps you’re ready to take things to the next level or want to express your commitment to this new lifestyle in a significant way? Then perhaps it’s time

Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice a femdom dynamic, play mostly revolves around harnessing feminine energy to assert dominance, or exploring the masculinity associated with domination to affirm a Dominant role. There’s lots to explore within

In BDSM, collars are accessories, usually worn around the neck, that can be used during play or in day-to-day life to reflect a person’s role within a power play dynamic. Collars have been popular throughout LGBTQ+ history and within many alternative subcultures, but there’s a strong association between collars and kink. Because there’s so much

Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of BDSM in the media, kink dynamics often get a bad rep. Portrayals of BDSM within mainstream media can often be shamed, made into a joke or misrepresented. Hollywood often shows