What is CBT?

CBT involves consensual activities focused on the stimulation, manipulation, or restriction of the male genitals. It can be a form of dominance and submission play, where one partner takes on a dominant role while the other assumes a submissive role.

CBT activities can include various forms of genital stimulation or play, such as bondage, impact play (such as spanking or slapping), genital spanking, squeezing, wax play, ball stretching, genital clamps, and more. These activities are typically performed with the consent, communication, and boundaries set by the involved partners.

Why do people enjoy CBT?

The reasons why individuals may enjoy CBT as a kink can vary from person to person. It’s important to remember that people have diverse interests and desires when it comes to sexual activities and exploration. Here are a few common reasons why some individuals may find CBT appealing:

1. Sensation and Stimulation:

CBT can provide intense sensations and stimulation to the genital area, which some people find pleasurable. The mixture of pain and pleasure can create a unique and heightened sexual experience.

2. Power Exchange and Dominance/Submission:

CBT can be a way for individuals to explore power dynamics and engage in dominance and submission play. The dominant partner may derive pleasure from exerting control and dominance over the submissive partner’s genitals, while the submissive partner may enjoy relinquishing control and experiencing the sensations associated with CBT.

3. Taboo and Psychological Factors:

For some individuals, engaging in activities that are considered taboo or socially unconventional can be sexually arousing. The psychological aspect of pushing boundaries and exploring forbidden territory can contribute to the appeal of CBT.

4. Endorphin Rush:

Engaging in CBT can trigger the release of endorphins, which are the body’s natural pain-killing hormones. Some people may enjoy the rush of endorphins and the subsequent feelings of pleasure and relaxation.

5. Fetishization and Aesthetic Appeal:

CBT activities, such as bondage or using specialized devices, can have a visual or aesthetic appeal to some individuals. They may find the look of the restraints or the equipment itself arousing.

How can I start with CBT?

Below are five common ways you too can try out CBT, many of these can be done without any extra toys but remember to be careful with what you use. It’s often better to wait for that toy delivery than use an inappropriate object that could cause harm or problems later!

1. Genital Bondage:

This involves using ropes, restraints, or other bondage equipment to restrain or tie up the genitals. It can restrict movement, enhance sensitivity, and create a feeling of vulnerability. Often this is incorporated with Shibari and the use of bondage ropes.

2. Impact Play:

Impact play refers to activities that involve striking or impacting the genitals with various objects. This can include spanking, slapping, flogging, or using specialized tools designed for CBT play, such as genital paddles or canes. The intensity and type of impact can be negotiated beforehand to ensure the participants’ comfort and consent.

3. Squeezing and Pressure:

This includes activities that involve squeezing, compressing, or applying pressure to the genitals. It can be done with bare hands, specialized CBT devices, or even using specific techniques like ball-crushing or cock rings that restrict blood flow for heightened sensations.

4. Genital Clamps and Clips:

Clamps and clips designed for CBT play can be used to apply pressure or create temporary pain on the genitals. These devices can be attached to the penis, testicles, or both, depending on individual preferences. The intensity of the pressure can be adjusted according to the participants’ comfort levels. When using these clamps, make sure you buy the correct toys, these are designed not to apply pressure to the incorrect places and will come with instructions on their use.

5. Temperature Play and Wax Play:

Temperature play involves using hot or cold objects on the genitals to provide different sensations. For example, ice cubes or chilled metal objects can create a cooling effect, while wax play involves dripping hot wax onto the skin. It’s important to exercise caution and use appropriate materials to avoid burns or other injuries.

6. Ball Stretching or Weighted Devices:

Some individuals enjoy the sensation of having their testicles stretched or weighted. This can be achieved through the use of specialized devices, such as ball stretchers or weighted chains. It is important to ensure that any stretching or weight applied is within the comfort limits of the individual.

Remember, engaging in CBT play should always be consensual, and communication, trust, and safety are essential. It’s crucial to establish clear boundaries, use proper techniques, and have appropriate safety measures in place to ensure the well-being of all participants. Take it slow, enjoy the build-up and most importantly have fun.