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A Guide to Pet Play

Pet play is a type of roleplay in BDSM based on enacting the traits or behaviour of an animal, specifically a domesticated one. Though this sounds pretty taboo, we actually see people do things associated with pet play without even realising. For example, at Halloween we often see people dressed up as sexy animals with

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Bratty Submissives: Everything you need to know about being one and being with one

How to navigate D/s dynamics as a Brat ‘Brat’ is a role within BDSM that you might come across during your power play journey. Instead of being obedient and compliant like typical service Subs, brats love to test their Doms’ patience by misbehaving and bending the rules. Some brats can be Doms and Switches, but

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Sub Mode Activated: Sub Frenzy, Sub Space & Sub Drop Explained

How to navigate different stages in your submissive journey BDSM relationships involve a power dynamic between a dominant and a submissive partner. As such, submissives often go through various stages or states on their journey of submission. These stages or states can vary from person to person and depend on different factors such as experience,

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Solo Submission: Tips for establishing your kinky identity when single

Being single and submissive can be a frustrating experience, especially when it comes to expressing your submissive identity. It is sometimes challenging to find a partner who aligns with your values and desires, and many new submissives may feel pressured to rush into relationships or sexual encounters in order to experience their kinks. This can

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How to vet a Dominant

How to vet a dominant

5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Dominants  There’s nothing more exciting than meeting a potential Dominant, but how do you know if they’re the right fit for you? In BDSM, vetting is the important process of getting to know a new potential play partner before you decide to play or begin a

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What is Age Play?

What is Age Play?

A Guide to Care Giver/Little D/s Dynamics  Trigger warning/Disclaimer: This article discusses some sensitive topics such as Age Play, age regression, and sexual abuse that some readers may find triggering. We recognise that Age Play isn’t for everyone, but if you’d like to learn more or are considering experimenting with Age Play, use this guide

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