What is consent, why it’s important and how to practice it Consent may seem like a simple concept, but it can look and feel different for everyone. In the world of BDSM and Kink, Consent is one of the core foundations on which a successful dynamic, relationship or experience is built upon. So, if you’re […]
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Cocktails & Kink: UV Party – Friday 19th September. Join Sarah from Sub in the City for an evening of glowing kinkiness at our Friday night UV party ! You’ll be welcomed into a decadent cocktail bar in Central Bournemouth, where we will have a private bar to ourselves to spend the evening chatting and
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Cocktails & Kink: Kinkmas Market & Festive Social Canvas, Bournemouth, Sunday 30th November at 4pm Join Sub in the City to welcome in the Kinkmas season with an afternoon event featuring small kinky businesses selling their goods and services, interactive workshops, talks and demos and a cocktails & kink social to top off the event.
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6-week Conscious Kink Course to explore what BDSM means to you and create aligned kinky experiences. Starting Sunday 11th January 2026 You will receive a recorded workshop to your inbox every Sunday and have access to the group chat for the duration of the six weeks – follow along live to get real-time advice, guidance
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Cocktails & Kink: Samhain Seduction Thursday 30th October 2025 – BOURNEMOUTH It’s the most wonderful time of the year…HALLOWEEN! Join Sarah from Sub in the City for an epic kinky Halloween party on Thursday 30th October in Bournemouth. This will be an evening of samhain seduction – think witchy vibes as we mix kink with
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Power Play Soirée – SATURDAY 17TH MAY Bournemouth 7pm-late. Sub in the City is headed back to the South Coast as we introduce Power Play Soiree in Bournemouth! Join us for an evening to indulge in the depths of Power Play as we guide you through a four-part workshop covering different elements of conscious power exchange.
Erotic Impact Skills – Friday 8th May at 7.30pm Immerse yourself in a decadent journey of sensuality and skill at Sub in the City’s exclusive Erotic Impact Play Workshop. Designed to awaken your deepest desires, this luxurious experience will guide you through the art of spanking for pleasure—and pain—with finesse and passion. This event is
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Friday 31st July – Bournemouth BH1 UV WAX PLAY WORKSHOP Join Sub in the City for an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration and turn your bodies into glow in the dark masterpieces. Guided by Integrative Kink Therapist Sarah Salazar (Sub in the City) and Pro Dom Master Carlos, you’ll discover the sensual art
Cocktails & Kink: Summer Social Friday 25th July | 8pm–1am | Bournemouth Step into a night where sophistication meets playful curiosity. Join us for the Cocktails & Kink: Summer Social—Bournemouth’s hottest new gathering for open-minded adults ready to connect, explore, and celebrate in style. What to Expect: A Stunning Setting: We’ve taken over one of Bournemouth’s
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THURSDAY 5th September 2024 @7.30PM ONLINE Discipline – the other D in BDSM that rarely gets spoken about. Discipline is an important part of creating a successful power exchange dynamic, and if you’re looking for some inspiration when it comes to training, disciplining and punishing your submissive partner, then this workshop is for you. We
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