5 Ways to be more Dominant without being sadistic When most people think of Dom and Sub relationships they think, of pain, obedience, and total submission. Whilst this certainly can be the case for some people it’s more likely that the form of dominance that suits you will be somewhere along a sliding scale. One […]
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Where to look for the best kinky connections, conversations, education & play It won’t take most people long to figure out that searching the internet and available apps is a great place to network, learn and date whether for the vanilla dating scene or for kinksters. There is a huge variety of content out there
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Top tips for navigating your first play, kink, or fetish party Ok, I’m ready! If you’re ready to get out there and mingle with some like-minded people you’ve probably found yourself wondering what the difference is between a play, kink, or fetish party. There is a multitude of different events organised for kinksters but it
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What is consent, why it’s important and how to practice it Consent may seem like a simple concept, but it can look and feel different for everyone. In the world of BDSM and Kink, Consent is one of the core foundations on which a successful dynamic, relationship or experience is built upon. So, if you’re
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Cocktails & Kink: UV Party – Friday 19th September. Join Sarah from Sub in the City for an evening of glowing kinkiness at our Friday night UV party ! You’ll be welcomed into a decadent cocktail bar in Central Bournemouth, where we will have a private bar to ourselves to spend the evening chatting and
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Cocktails & Kink: Kinkmas Market & Festive Social Canvas, Bournemouth, Sunday 30th November at 4pm Join Sub in the City to welcome in the Kinkmas season with an afternoon event featuring small kinky businesses selling their goods and services, interactive workshops, talks and demos and a cocktails & kink social to top off the event.
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6-week Conscious Kink Course to explore what BDSM means to you and create aligned kinky experiences. Starting Sunday 11th January 2026 You will receive a recorded workshop to your inbox every Sunday and have access to the group chat for the duration of the six weeks – follow along live to get real-time advice, guidance
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Cocktails & Kink: Samhain Seduction Thursday 30th October 2025 – BOURNEMOUTH It’s the most wonderful time of the year…HALLOWEEN! Join Sarah from Sub in the City for an epic kinky Halloween party on Thursday 30th October in Bournemouth. This will be an evening of samhain seduction – think witchy vibes as we mix kink with
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Power Play Soirée – SATURDAY 17TH MAY Bournemouth 7pm-late. Sub in the City is headed back to the South Coast as we introduce Power Play Soiree in Bournemouth! Join us for an evening to indulge in the depths of Power Play as we guide you through a four-part workshop covering different elements of conscious power exchange.
Erotic Impact Skills – Friday 12th December at 7.30pm Immerse yourself in a decadent journey of sensuality and skill at Sub in the City’s exclusive Erotic Impact Play Workshop. Designed to awaken your deepest desires, this luxurious experience will guide you through the art of spanking for pleasure—and pain—with finesse and passion. This event is
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