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What is Cuckholding?

The term ‘cuckolding’ has become a top adult hit on searches recently (with the UK and Netherlands topping the list) so this week I look a little closer at what it is that makes people want to watch (or hear about) their partner having sex with another person without getting involved. What is Cuckolding? Cuckolding […]

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Chastity

A Guide to Chastity

Chastity, the act of restricting some or all kinds of sexual pleasure, involves intense denial, control and perseverance. By wearing a chastity cage or belt, Submissives are forced to abstain from sex for the duration of a scene or in a long term commitment. Within a BDSM power dynamic, chastity can be a test of

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What is Primal Play?

Primal Play merges the boundaries between the human and the animal world, in this guide, I talk you through this fantasy world where the participants become the hunters and the hunted. But what is Primal Play?? “Primal Play” refers to a specific type of role-playing and power exchange between individuals and can often be linked

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What is CBT

What is CBT?

Top tips for exploring C*ck & Ball Torture CBT is a lesser-known kink that falls within the BDSM world towards the sado-masochism end of the spectrum. For this kink, the owner of the genitals enjoys the objectification and pain associated with the genitals; restriction, slapping, and wax play are all on the menu here. CBT

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Foot Fetish

Foot Fetish

A foot fetish, also known as podophilia, is a sexual attraction or interest in feet. People with a foot fetish derive sexual pleasure or arousal from feet, including activities such as foot worship, foot massages, foot tickling, or even just looking at feet. This fetish can vary in intensity and may involve various aspects, such

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A Guide to Pet Play

Pet play is a type of roleplay in BDSM based on enacting the traits or behaviour of an animal, specifically a domesticated one. Though this sounds pretty taboo, we actually see people do things associated with pet play without even realising. For example, at Halloween we often see people dressed up as sexy animals with

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bratty submissive

Bratty Submissives: Everything you need to know about being one and being with one

How to navigate D/s dynamics as a Brat ‘Brat’ is a role within BDSM that you might come across during your power play journey. Instead of being obedient and compliant like typical service Subs, brats love to test their Doms’ patience by misbehaving and bending the rules. Some brats can be Doms and Switches, but

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Sub Mode Activated: Sub Frenzy, Sub Space & Sub Drop Explained

How to navigate different stages in your submissive journey BDSM relationships involve a power dynamic between a dominant and a submissive partner. As such, submissives often go through various stages or states on their journey of submission. These stages or states can vary from person to person and depend on different factors such as experience,

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