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Looking for the best BDSM Dungeons in London? Look no further! London, the cosmopolitan capital of England, is a city that offers so much to residents and visitors alike, look beyond the London Eye, Tower Bridge, and the standard sights and you’ll find a diverse BDSM scene simmering beneath for those seeking to explore their […]

How to navigate D/s dynamics as a Brat ‘Brat’ is a role within BDSM that you might come across during your power play journey. Instead of being obedient and compliant like typical service Subs, brats love to test their Doms’ patience by misbehaving and bending the rules. Some brats can be Doms and Switches, but

How to navigate different stages in your submissive journey BDSM relationships involve a power dynamic between a dominant and a submissive partner. As such, submissives often go through various stages or states on their journey of submission. These stages or states can vary from person to person and depend on different factors such as experience,

Chronic pain is characterised as long-term pain that can sometimes be resistant to treatment, and can affect many aspects of a person’s life. It can be so intense that it affects mobility, energy levels, mood, and sometimes a person’s ability or desire to have sex. However, this doesn’t mean that people with chronic pain can’t

Being single and submissive can be a frustrating experience, especially when it comes to expressing your submissive identity. It is sometimes challenging to find a partner who aligns with your values and desires, and many new submissives may feel pressured to rush into relationships or sexual encounters in order to experience their kinks. This can

5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Dominants  There’s nothing more exciting than meeting a potential Dominant, but how do you know if they’re the right fit for you? In BDSM, vetting is the important process of getting to know a new potential play partner before you decide to play or begin a

What Good Subs Get Tips and Inspiration for showing your sub you appreciate them Engaging in a Dominant/submissive relationship, whether in the bedroom or outside of it is a form of BDSM that utilises power exchange. Power exchange relationships involve the transfer of power from one person to another, usually from the submissive to the

A Guide to Care Giver/Little D/s Dynamics  Trigger warning/Disclaimer: This article discusses some sensitive topics such as Age Play, age regression, and sexual abuse that some readers may find triggering. We recognise that Age Play isn’t for everyone, but if you’d like to learn more or are considering experimenting with Age Play, use this guide

5 Ways to be more Dominant without being sadistic When most people think of Dom and Sub relationships they think, of pain, obedience, and total submission. Whilst this certainly can be the case for some people it’s more likely that the form of dominance that suits you will be somewhere along a sliding scale. One

Where to look for the best kinky connections, conversations, education & play It won’t take most people long to figure out that searching the internet and available apps is a great place to network, learn and date whether for the vanilla dating scene or for kinksters. There is a huge variety of content out there