In BDSM, collars are accessories, usually worn around the neck, that can be used during play or in day-to-day life to reflect a person’s role within a power play dynamic. Collars have been popular throughout LGBTQ+ history and within many alternative subcultures, but there’s a strong association between collars and kink. Because there’s so much […]
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Rated & Slated: BDSM Movies & Shows A round up of some of the best and worst kinky TV When it comes to representations of BDSM in the media, kink dynamics often get a bad rep. Portrayals of BDSM within mainstream media can often be shamed, made into a joke or misrepresented. Hollywood often shows
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A guide to the five love languages and how to incorporate them into BDSM When looking at relationships, the five love languages tell us how our loved ones express their affection, and what they value most when receiving affection. These are Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts and Acts of Service. Though
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Top tips for becoming a great service submissive Service submissive is a type of role associated with Dom/Sub dynamics, which focuses on the Submissive’s dedication and servitude towards their Dominant. The type of service provided within a service-oriented dynamic will usually be something that benefits the Dom practically, sexually, or as part of care. Because
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5 top tips for connecting with new and potential Submissives Have you just met a potential play partner but don’t know what your next step is? As a Dominant, meeting someone that you can visualise as a potential Submissive can be an exciting feeling, and it’s tempting to jump straight into play, but it’s
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The term ‘cuckolding’ has become a top adult hit on searches recently (with the UK and Netherlands topping the list) so this week I look a little closer at what it is that makes people want to watch (or hear about) their partner having sex with another person without getting involved. What is Cuckolding? Cuckolding
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Chastity, the act of restricting some or all kinds of sexual pleasure, involves intense denial, control and perseverance. By wearing a chastity cage or belt, Submissives are forced to abstain from sex for the duration of a scene or in a long term commitment. Within a BDSM power dynamic, chastity can be a test of
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Primal Play merges the boundaries between the human and the animal world, in this guide, I talk you through this fantasy world where the participants become the hunters and the hunted. But what is Primal Play?? “Primal Play” refers to a specific type of role-playing and power exchange between individuals and can often be linked
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Top tips for exploring C*ck & Ball Torture CBT is a lesser-known kink that falls within the BDSM world towards the sado-masochism end of the spectrum. For this kink, the owner of the genitals enjoys the objectification and pain associated with the genitals; restriction, slapping, and wax play are all on the menu here. CBT
A foot fetish, also known as podophilia, is a sexual attraction or interest in feet. People with a foot fetish derive sexual pleasure or arousal from feet, including activities such as foot worship, foot massages, foot tickling, or even just looking at feet. This fetish can vary in intensity and may involve various aspects, such
