THURSDAY 29th January @ 7.30pm UK ONLINE Curious about kink or want to introduce a partner to the world of BDSM? Then join me for my BDSM 101 class where I will be talking you through the basics of BDSM and allowing you to explore what it means to you. This BDSM workshop will equip […]
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THURSDAY 6th November 2025 7.30PM ONLINE Whether you’re exploring the world of BDSM or simply want to learn some new ways to spice up your sexy time, this workshop will explore the world of pain and pleasure to help you put your kinky desires into practice. We’ll be covering everything from spanking techniques to tools
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THURSDAY 16th October 2024 @7.30PM ONLINE BDSM goes way beyond a spank, a choke and a hair pull, so forget the fluffy handcuffs because in this workshop, we will go beyond the surface to explore the powerful tools which are rules and rituals. Wherever you are in your kink journey, rules and rituals can provide
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Thursday 23rd October 2025 @7.30PM ONLINE Do you want to explore and understand your submissive desires more deeply? Do you want to feel confident in what you want and find a Dom that’s right for you? Whether you’re in a relationship or single, you’re completely new to BDSM or still don’t know if submission is
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THURSDAY 01st August 2024 @7.30PM ONLINE Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be
What is dissociation in BDSM? Some believe it’s the same as subspace or topspace, some believe it’s completely different. In this article, I talk you through the definitions and provide a few tips on how to stay grounded during play. Not all BDSM dynamics are created equal – some involve romance, and some don’t. But
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BDSM Punishments are an important part of a Dom/sub dynamic, they are an effective way to whip your submissive into shape (sometimes quite literally) when they’re not following the rules, and a delicious way to assert your authority and develop the dynamic between Dom and Sub. Whether you’re a new Dom looking to deepen your
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Butt stuff – you either love it or fear it greatly until you try it. One of the most common differences of opinion I see with the couples I work with on BDSM negotiation is anal play! There really seems to be a stark contrast in eagerness to experiment with anal play. For many Dominants,
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Thought BDSM was all about whips and chains, rough sex, and hidden trauma? Think again. On behalf of all the kinksters out there, here are five misconceptions about BDSM relationships, debunked! Dominant & Submissive relationships can get a bad rep outside of the BDSM community. The portrayal of BDSM in the mainstream media is often
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Have you ever had a fantasy about sex with a stranger? How about sex you didn’t consent to? Well, you’re not alone. In this blog, I will be talking you through consensual non-consent, also known as ‘rape play’, what it is, and how to practice it safely. Please be advised this topic may be triggering
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